What to wear, how to sit ,what to say, when to…you know! Here's a crash course inwining at the dating game
he man you’ve been pining after has finally asked you out on date. Of course, he doesn't know you’ve been pining after him; otherwise he would not have asked you out. Men love a challenge. They will pursue the unattainable.
Once you accept this reality ,only then do you stand a chance at nabbing this man's heart. Simply because he asked you out on a date does mean he's fallen for you.
Anything he said to you, any sweet nothings he whispered over the phone or expressed via email up to this point, is salesmanship. It got him this date. Now you must take over and orchestrate the pace and the cadence of your liaison. Play the game, or be played with…..
The key to impressing a man is to make him believe you don’t give a hoot about his opinion. You do not dress for him, you do not look forward to seeing him, and you do not spend hours discussinghim over the phone with your friends. He is simply one among the many men who want you. You neither care nor notice.
You have accepted his invitation in order to humor him. you squeezed him into your schedule. Your date will be a success if- and only if- you manage to convey the right balance of arrogant, but you aren’t doing it on purpose , If anyone advises you to act naturally during your date, remember that to act naturally is an oxymoron. It takes work
so, let's get to work. You have about a week to prepare for this date. What should you do?
look good
Get smart
Go shopping
Appear busy
Smell nice
Do your homework
Get waxed
Do lunch
and play your part